just be patient!
I was so embarrassed at this latest post I deleted the whole thing and am writing something new.
I just get way too emotional sometimes and let loose like a crazy person when I just need to take the downs with the ups.... and be patient.
Tom is having a bad week at work and admitted it to me today he said he was sorry he was in a bad mood. He said we would do some fun stuff this weekend, and at xmas maybe take me to L.A. or someplace, just us together. Also I am going to do a better job this weekend at dressing up in a teddy and being sexy.
And now I feel a little better. Also thank you so much for your comments and for listening, it really got me through the day. I just got so depressed.
Sincerely,
a crazy person
5 comments:
Could you try talking to him about it? I know from the other post that it might cause a fight but you could you try just asking general questions about if he's happy or in a bad mood or something like that? And can't you go out with out him once in a while? I mean I know that what you are wanting to do is to be with him, but if you are that lonely it won't make you feel better to completely isolate yourself, right? Go out with your pals once in a while. Could you and your friends start a book club or dinner club or something just so you can have some place to go? You could always just go alone if he doesn't want to go.. I'm sure you'll get it figured out.. Maybe has nothing to do with you.. Sorry I didn't have any super great ideas :)
Maybe tell him you're planning a evening for the two of you and he just has to show up. Maybe couples massages and aphrodisiac dinner and a hotel (hot tub? jacuzzi?) for a night?
Or maybe have a friend watch Guapo and make an aphrodisiac dinner and unplug the tv, hide the electronics and play strip poker or something? lol. I have ridiculous ideas.
Maybe you should both write down 5 or 10 ideas for being closer and spontaneous and put them in a box or bowl or hat and then pick one or two each week and do them no matter what.
Maybe have a weekly movie or live music date with a friend?
My first thought was to drug T with some pot brownies. lol.
xo.
You're not crazy, honey. Just trying to negotiate a relationship can make anybody feel that way, though. We love you as you are. Xo
I'm glad to hear that you are feeling better and that you guys talked about it :)
Don't feel bad about getting emotional; it happens to the best of us...A LOT!
Glad that L.A. is happening for you. I'm sure it'll be a ton of fun!
Post a Comment